The teen years bring many new challenges for families. For many, this can be a time when your child may look for more independence and begin to pull away. This can have a huge effect on the relationship between parents and their children. However, there are ways of combating these challenges, and Mill Hill School are here to help with some great advice on how to improve relationships with your teens…
Share an interest
Try to find a similar interest with your child and set aside time to do this together. This could be exercising together, playing a favourite game together or simply watching a film together.
When you share a common interest with your child it can help you to spend more time together, learning and exploring those interests and building a stronger bond with each other.
Give praise
Remember to recognise your teen’s strengths and abilities and praise their efforts. As parents we tend to do this more when our children are younger, however adolescents need this recognition just as much.
Show trust
You’ve spent a huge part of your child’s life teaching them how to become independent and now that they’re finally starting to explore this freedom, you should try your best to trust them.
Simple actions that show your trust will help to boost your child’s confidence and strengthen your relationship. Ask your child to help you with a particular task, such as walking the dog, or if you are feeling brave, offer to help them learn how to drive in your car!
Share meals
Family meals are a great way to maintain healthy family relationships. They provide an opportunity for every member of the family to share the events of their day or talk about current affairs. By keeping family meals to a regular routine and banning smart devices from the dinner table, you can always enjoy some quality time together.
